Harassment?

I know there are a few military mothers on here and since it's anonymous. I can't think of anywhere else to post. So I've been with my unit for 5 years now. When I first came on(an e3) I had a an e5 that well pursued me. We ended up hooking up, yes it was mutual. Found out later he was married and broke it off.

1 years down the line I meet my husband we are together a year the marry and have been married since. Waited a while and had our first baby. I was OVER JOYED and was excited about the holiday Christmas party our unit throws.

It ended up being a fucking disaster! A shit load of the men in my unit keep making snide remarks about is this my Ex's baby, does his wife know, how they look alike, all in front of my fucking husband. When I asked them to stop I'm told "what don't know how to take a joke". And other snide remarks.

I want to report this shit but honestly I know if I do there will be hell to pay. I'll be ostracized and my career will be over. I was also given an e5 slot and the comments on "sucking your way to the top" have been flying!

I've never been more fucking lost or felt more defeated. I now hate my damn job, hate my "brothers in arms" and hate myself in a way.

What the fuck do I do?