Going "natural" in the netherlands

Hey ladies! So all through puberty and what have you, I was extremely self conscious about hair in the nether regions, to the point where I had a bunch of ingrown hairs and would shave every single day. Eventually I got on a shaving "schedule" (Shaving once a week to prevent ingrowns and reduce the itching associated.) And I eventually grew to almost like having it (Not a puff ball forest, it all "lays down" & doesn't grow past a certain length. & I still shave close to the vaginal region for easier maintainance) But I've noticed since going "natural" that it'll start to itch when pressed against tight underwear (Seems like ALL female underwear is tight. 😒) Any way to prevent that?