pregnancy weight

Am I the only who is tired of people making comments about how we look pregnant and asking why our belly is small/large?? I was asked last week if my baby is under weight because my belly is small😒 I'm petite, 5'1 I'm not going to carry big . I'm almost 9 months and I was very offended . My boyfriend thinks I don't eat enough during the day and believes that's why my belly is small. He also thinks I'm suppose to have gained weight every where on my body because I'm all belly but he doesn't understand that every woman carries differently and genes play a part also. But it's rather annoying when people feel the need to criticize us for how we look pregnant .