So my bf and I have been dating for two years now and last year some problems occurred. He's in 10 different bands counting inside and out of school. He also works. And has friends that need attention. My love language is quality time. And so for me to feel completely loved I need quality time. And you might notice the clash between the two. Plus hw and AP classes and stressers. Last year this occurred multiple time where I felt as though I was a priority since I came last after all but I don't wanna ask him to drop anything. He told me he loved me deeply and would do anything so I told him what was bothering me he said he would drop at least one and nothing changed.. this keeps happening.. and I'm noticing nothing is changing.. he said band is his way into college.. I can't take that away from him.. I did ask him multiple times if he felt he couldn't handle a gf and insisted to trust him. Here I am broken and hurt. Because I don't feel loved.(which I wish I could change and I tried but it doesn't exsisted than I end up hating myself). He said he would change and we took the next step which was sex. Now the problem occurs again....I am totally emotionally connected and it hurts to be with him... and without him. I'm at a loss at what to do..
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