pull out method??

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so im not on birth control and i trust my boyfriend a lot with the pull out method, we have been using that method for a month now and i make sure to pee afterwards and take all percautions. i just wanted advice on if i should continue to use this method bc it does feel a hell of a lot better, or if we should go back to condoms?

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I think pulling out (it shouldn't be a "method") is risky and foolish.

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Since when does peeing help push sperm out of your uterus, vagina, and possibly fallopian tubes? Those are completely different areas and body parts than your urethra.

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Everyone might be telling you that it's not safe and to use a different method but honestly at the end of the day, it's up to you. My boyfriend has been pulling out for over a year now and we've been fine. We've had a few pregnancy scares but it ended up being okay. As long as you are FULLY educated on the risks/consequences of you're actions and you still choose to do it while avoiding the risks as much as you can or as much as you want to then go for it. Please do not take this in a way of me promoting the pull out method, that's not what I'm trying to do here. But as long as you're educated and know what you're doing and trust both you and your partner, then it's up to you to make that decision. It's the riskiest method to use, but honestly none of them are 100% effective, you could end up getting pregnant from every other method too. It's whatever you feel most comfortable with.

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Depends on how unwilling you are to have a baby. That goes for all forms of birth control. The more you want to stay not pregnant the harder you should try not to get pregnant. So it's up to you.

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I think u have to use a serious control method other than yours bc I was following same way you r doing now and I got pregnant after one month

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I've personally used the pull out method for almost 6 years and it's work every single time for us.

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My cousin got pregnant after a few years of doing it. If your not stable and ready for a family and hopefully married then you prolly do no want to have a baby. Pre cum can also get people pregnant I know that, especially if it's round 2. Be so careful and use a condom!

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Always use a solid birth control or condoms. Semen comes out before he comes and you can get pregnant that way. It's far less likely to happen but still very possible.

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I suggest other forms of birth control like the pill, implant, patch, iud, etc etc. Condoms do suck and personally I'd never rely on the pull out method alone so I got on the pill recently.

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Precum CAN contain sperm. It doesn't always but it can. If your man hasn't peed since he's last cum, his Precum can have sperm in it. Just because you haven't gotten pregnant from it yet doesn't mean it can't happen. It also depends on where in your cycle you are. You have a much lower  chance of pregnancy if you have unprotected sex or failed birth control (i.e. If any sperm enters your vagina) after ovulation, but since not every woman knows the exact day she ovulates, this method is unreliable. If you have sex before you ovulate or during ovulation, your chances go way up. 
Fertility is weird, you won't always get pregnant from sperm entering you, even when ovulating, that's why so many women spend so much time trying to conceive. It's a finicky thing. But if you don't want a child, don't take chances. 
Id really suggest getting on some form of birth control. There are some forms of the pill that are entirely free or very low cost and you can still have sex without condoms (though it never hurts to have a backup)! IUDs last for 5 years and are some of the most effective forms of birth control! Pulling out, while definitely something that can work as birth control if done properly 100% of the time (including planning sex to avoid your fertile days), isn't super reliable.

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