Do you believe in 'the one'

Question

What's the point in waiting for the one when he's most likely to let you down anyway? So many women get cheated on by men they trusted and loved enough to marry. What's the point then? Only to get let down, betrayed and left with scars that last forever? Aren't I better off having a child with a friend and then co-parent?

Answer

I believe in the one. I belive that sometimes we think we found the one, but they arent...and then relationships become toxic. It's very important that you two share the same values and beliefs about how relationships go.

I think your view is very jaded though, and you're going to miss something very special thinking that way.

Answer

It's hard not to get into that mindset when someone has hurt you. It's so easy to just wallow in the pain and get bitter! My ex husband ran off with another woman. But I decided to try not be cynical and jaded and that I am worthy of someone who treats me better. Fast forward a couple of years and I have met the absolute loveliest man and we are trying to have a baby. Try not to write off all men because some are cheating dicks! There are some good fellas out there.

Answer

Women cheat too. They just don't get caught.

Personally, I expect my partners to engage in "extracurricular" sex IF they want to. However, I believe it is my job as their partner to do my best to meet all the needs in their life so they don't want to. I also expect them to feel comfortable talking to me about their needs. I've found if you listen most people tell you what they need and want in a relationship, but many people write it off an unimportant, then they wonder why their partner strayed. 
 
But, otherwise, I am with you! I want to find another young, stable, like-valued couple who wants kids and have two beautiful children! Me and my partner get them one week, the other couple gets them the next! Haha, best part of divorce, you still have the time to tend to your relationship along with all the love and joy of parenthood!

Do you believe in 'the one'

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