So my hubby works 2nd and so do I so when I schedule my OB appointments they are always in the morning so I don't have to take off work......and since hubby can go I have him come with me to each appointment. Some women in the waiting room look at us weird when they see him with me and they are alone.... Is it weird that he comes with me even to the small quick appointments?? Our daughter is a much mine as his and I want him to be a part of as much as he can be, we tried so hard for years to get her and I don't want to leave him out at all. If he can and wants to why not come?? Also some of the nurses look at him weird, thankfully he hasn't noticed but I don't think he would care anyways. What's your opinion if your SO could would you have them come with you?