My daughter is 9 months old and she woke up at 12:30 am which she often does wake up at some point. I went in and covered her up bc she's usually cold, didn't work so I gave her a bottle, didn't work and she cried for 2 hours and I have no idea why. I have never been this frustrated with her. However that's not the part that made me so upset. My husband is constantly on call for his job and taking work calls all the time. I would say 5 nights of the week he gets woken up from work calls. He gets calls on weekends and has to work on his computer. He is the most loving husband I could ever ask for but sometimes it seems like he puts work before me. He came in while I was dealing with our daughter,  saw how unbelievably frustrated I was, and then left to go work. He didn't tell me he had a work call. He just sympathized and then left the room so I thought he went to get apple juice or something to help me. Then when he didn't come back I figured he went back to bed. I was so so so hurt by that thought. He went back to bed after seeing me with our screaming daughter without offering to help. I finally get her to sleep and then I hear his voice on the phone down stairs so I knew he was on a work call. His job is not life or death situations. Why didn't he tell his work he would help them in a little bit bc I so obviously needed a break and some help. He just left, and went to work on his computer. I really try not to complain bc I get to stay home with our daughter and he brings in enough money to support us. But this hurt me so bad. After I got her to sleep I've been sitting here crying for the last 15 minutes. I am so tired of him taking calls, our plans being ruined, or having to adjust our schedule bc of work. He knows I am frustrated by all his work calls but he's in a bind bc what is he supposed to do about it? I tell him to find another job! But I feel bad even saying that bc he loves his job. Idk what to do anymore. Last Saturday night he was working for like 5 hours overnight and so our Sunday was ruined bc he was so exhausted from being up all night. 😭 I'm sorry this is so long but I am just feeling so sad right now. Not to mention I'm 20 weeks pregnant and am only going to get busier with kids. I need some more support but I just don't have it right now.  Any kind words are welcome. Or if I'm being a complete high maintenance wife please tell me. Tyia.