idk if it's gonna last much longer...... need y'alls opinion?!?!

Okay so today me &I my husband went Christmas shopping & we took one of my friends with us. We were all having a good time then he completely changed his mood. I kept asking him where he wanted to go to get his parents something for Christmas but he kept saying idk. Like this was his idea. So he quit talking to me & everything. We were fighting in front of my friend. & now she thinks she's the reason we were fighting. I told her no she wasn't. He said that he gives us a 70/30 on our marriage. 70 being good & 30 being bad. I just don't know what to think anymore. &I I started my period today after not having it for 7 months & I've been kinda moody today not trying to be but when you haven't had a period that long it tends to make you bitchy. & then he decides he wants to call me a bitch. Like wow. I wanna work things out but idk if things are worth working out. I feel like I live in a dungeon cuz I haven't been able to go anywhere in 2 months since he hasn't been working. All I do is go to work &I come home. I even have to ask permission to go see family members. & I dont mind him going with me but I would really like some time to myself &I I can't even go to the bathroom & get ready for work without him coming in here with me. Like can I have 30 mins alone?!? It's just been really hard to not wanna get a divorce. But I don't think it will be much longer. I really need the advice. Thanks ladies.