And of course there has to be the one person who says "congratulations! Enjoy your peace and quiet now!" Why does there always have to be a negative comment?? I know they are trying to be funny but how about you just leave it as congratulations? I know, surprisingly, that babies cry, wake you up multiple times a night, and change your life.... We didn't decide to have a child blindly. But thanks for all of your helpful advice! 👿