boyfriend troubles

my boyfriend is really starting to annoy me recently and i don't know what to do! he can be slightly controlling sometimes however i always put him in his place and let him know when he oversteps boundaries, but i know he gets annoyed about me having friends of the opposite sex. he also wouldn't speak to me until i unfollowed my ex and this boy he doesn't like off instagram. i didn't really want to unfollow either of them, but i couldn't be bothered for the drama and arguments so i just did it. is that wrong of him to do that, or did he have a right to feel upset? also, he gets annoyed at me over the smallest things and starts arguments that i really don't think are necessary, and i don't have the energy anymore to try and keep him happy! it's like stepping on eggshells with him, if i do the slightest thing wrong he'll get upset and i have to try and make him happy again. am i wrong, and what should i do?