vibrator!

I have never really been able to orgasm, except through masterbtion But over the years I began to masterbate less and now it seems like I've lost my touch. Hell, it even seems like my clit can't get stimulated like it used to. I miss the embarrassing leg shakes. I finally got a vibrator and was playing around with it and had a pretty good time, like the old days. But I want to blow my own mind: tips?