Iam missing that mother nurturing touch???

*** update*** Question? How many months do you think you should start putting up boundaries so that you won't burn yourself out??? Side note: I was referring to babies about two/three months and older...

Just thinking... I see or hear how much mothers do to sooth their baby. Me personally I'm not doing it!!!! I believe baby can be spoiled, If a bady is quite leave him/her alone, if nothing wrong with him/her let them cry and I'm not holding you all day!!! I feel like babies have to learn to self sooth! While so many other mothers stress themselves out to make their baby happy. My friends use the carrier in the house to keep the baby with her like all the time while she cook, clean or whatever. She complains her back hurt all the time but still does it. Another friend allows both of her children to sleep with her. She hates it but does it to keep them quite. I just don't understand how people allow their children to run them like that??? Iam the only person that share these opinions??? I'm a mother of a beautiful three year old and pregnant with my boy😍 I also work with children for a living. I get tons of compliments from parents because of how different their child or baby behaves with me.