What do I do now?

I DESERVE BETTER

😳RANT!!!!😳

For the passed week, I've sensed something was wrong with my husband, emotionally. He's not the type to talk about his problems with me and rather talk to his friends about them. I know right, what kind of relationship is that? Anyways, he was getting ready for work today, and left his phone on the charger while he showered. Well, a Instagram dm popped up on the screen from one of our mutual female friends. It said, "I'm blocking you, you need to get your priorities straight!" So I go into the msgs and see he deleted their while conversation, so I couldnt see what she was talking about. He's fucked up before, I have little to no trust in him, so yes, I went thru his msgs. Anyways, later I write her on fb..a simple msg "I don't know what to say or ask you, but I'm not sure I want to know anyways. I know there's something wrong, but he won't talk to me, so I'm asking you"....as a good friend, she let it all out and told me. She basically said he told her something really disrespectful, and she wants nothing to do with him EVER again. I asked her to tell me what he said...He asked her if she would "help him pop 1 off" bcuz he hasn't gotten any from me bcuz I'm pregnant... And that if it was her asking him for sex, he would do it. And he was only asking her becuz she pretty and a friend..hed rather "ask a friend instead of a stranger". She shut him down immediately..told him off! Said he sounded stupid, and that she has more respect for me and herself to put herself in that situation..and told him she doesn't tolerate cheaters.

😒😒😒😒😒😒😒

First of all, since when is it not possible to have sex while pregnant? Second, If he were to choose me instead of playing the damn ps4 every second he has, then he'd get all the sex he wants. He knows it's possible, bcuz we had sex my whole 1st pregnancy with our daughter. I feel like this is just him finding a dumb excuse to cheat.

Our daughter is 4, and I'm currently 9 1/2 months pregnant, why do I have to deal with this shit 3 days before christmas!!!?? I really just don't want to deal with it, pack all our stuff and leave without even confronting him about it when he gets home tonight. We've been together almost 10 years, married for almost 5years, after this long, he wants to start ACTUALLY PHYSICALLY cheating now?

End of rant! Sorry it's so long.