Home birth help

So I'm planning a home birth which where I'm from is pretty unheard of.. no one understands why I want to do this. I have a family full of police, firefighters, and nurses.. the nurses are awful on the what if situations and trying to scare shame me into having my son at the hospital. I've had two previous births with epidural and they were pretty straight forward and uneventful.. but i know every delivery is different.. how do I get hem off my back. I trust my midwife and her team and I really feel like this is the right choice for me