merry Christmas! can I just vent?

I needed to just put it in writing how I really feel. I feel like I'm complaining so much that everyone is getting sick of hearing it. I am in so much pain at this point in my pregnancy that all I can do is whine about my pelvic pain, swollen feet, nausea and how much I am over being pregnant. I am also super hormonal and relatives are annoying me so bad. I have one relative that doesn't understand that you can have your baby 37-42 weeks and that's totally normal. So every time I say anytime after this next week he can come, she says that would only make me 8 months because I'm not 40 weeks which would make the baby "early". I've explained that this isn't the case numerous times, and 37 weeks and on is "full term" but she's ederly and doesn't understand. I want to be patient with her. It drives me insane because she cares so much but every time I tell her information about my pregnancy, she just misunderstands and then makes up very inaccurate information for responses. And wants to tell me how I'm wrong or that things have changed. Like she told me that now women are pregnant for 10 months (because I go by weeks it confuses her) she thinks you're 9 months the day of your due date. Ugh. I'm even annoying myself writing this because I complain so much. Thank you for letting me get this off of my chest. I need a snack and then to head to bed. I'm so grouchy and miserable today my crotch hurts and I'm tired and my feet are so swollen I can't walk on them.