divorce.

Hey everyone. I have only been married to my husband for 2 months. But we had been together for 7 years. We split up when I was pregnant. And got back together 7 months ago and got married 2 months ago. I finally told him we need a divorce. Because it's a constant fight. He told me to be a stay at home mom. Yet we are drowning and can barely make payments because he lies about how much he really makes. So when I forced him to make a joint account I saw the truth. And how much he spends behind my back. So I am looking for work so that I can provide for my daughter, since obviously he's not worried about it. My question is, have any of you gone through something similar and how did you guys survive?