So nervous for life after baby, scared of ex. advice please!
My ex was emotionally abusive and recently he came to my job and just stared at me. He's very manipulative and there have been a few times he's tried to get me to come over to his house because he wanted to see the ultrasounds. Later he admitted that he just wanted me to come over there. He has not shown any interest in the pregnancy at all. When he came to my job he didn't ask about baby at all. I'm so nervous for life after baby because I feel as if he's just going to try to use the child to get back at me or try to manipulate me. My baby is not an object and I don't want baby to be emotionally tortured by him jumping in and out of baby's life when HE feels like being a father for 5 minutes. How can I prevent this? My therapist thinks that he is a narcissist. Idk what to do and I'm so stressed. I love my baby so much and I just don't want baby in the middle of all of this. I have tried talking to him so many times but he wants nothing of it. If I'm not with him then baby does not exist basically. I have told him appt times and he blamed me for the reason he couldn't come when the clinic is 5 mins from his house. He said its my fault that we can't be a family, it's my fault that we broke up because I made him say it. He has told me that I will regret this and he has threatened to show up at my house. After he started saying those things I blocked him. Everything was quiet and then on Christmas eve he showed up at my job. Idk what I've gotten myself into but I'm so overwhelmed. He even got his ex to try to add me on Twitter!!!! I can't take this anymore ladies. I'm so worried for me and my baby. And I KNOW he would just use baby to spite me. Especially if I start dating someone else... I'm so worried. How would he use baby to hurt me? I don't want baby to be used in this. I don't want baby in this at all. This is all I think about now.
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