kinda sad

So I'll probably get a lot of hate for this but my parents and I haven't had the greatest relationship the last few years but it's kinda getting better. Sense we have been talking my parents have asked for a lot of help with their house. Now I don't have a problem with helping but they don't take care of their house and haven't really been great parents. My husband and grandma feel like their just using me because all they do is ask for help with stuff   Well I saw a bag from a store that I used to like and just asked what my mom got because I was curious. She told me it's some stuff for my cousins birthday and there going to celebrate this weekend. It's hurt because all i have gotten the last two years was a text and that's it. It's fine if they don't want to get me anything but they don't even want to hangout with me on my birthday or any other holiday. I feel like I'm overreacting and I need to get over it. But I'm really hurt.