I'm 21 years old and I'm pregnant with my second child. My first recently turned 3 almost 4 weeks ago. Today, I gave my mom the news and she's very disappointed in me.. She told me I've wasted 3-4 years of my life for nothing, I graduate from college in March, I'm due in August. She told me she's tired of me and won't help me with anything anymore.. I'm not asking for pity, I just need some encouraging words because I can't stop crying. I feel like I've ruined not only my life but my relationship with my family..