Ladies, it's very tough for me to orgasm during sex. I've been with my husband for 6 years and I've only orgasmed a small handful of times. I think it's just hard for me to let go. Sometimes we'll use a small vibrator and that helps, but most of the time I just CAN'T finish. I'll get super swollen and wet and everything feels so good, but I won't orgasm and it's so frustrating for me.