TMI Breast Feeding Question

I have VERY SMALL almost non existent nipples. Sometimes when I get cold they get a little bit bigger but nothing like I have ever seen in breast feeding images.... I'm worried my baby won't be able to latch on, because there is like nothing to latch on TO. When they are not erect, and it's dark, my husband can't tell which is nrwast ans which is nipple, and even right now as I'm running my hand over it, I cannot find the nipple with just my fingers.