My partner NEVER helps me finish! ๐Ÿ˜’

So I've been with my partner for a very, very long time now. We used to be so sexually active and we used to love it! He used to please me until I couldn't walk etc. 
But since we moved away from home, he seems to only want sex for himself. It's always "can we bone?", "you up for sex?", "can I have a bj?" etc. and I really don't feel like he cares how I feel after the sex. 
I am never satisfied. 
And that's frustrating because I love plessuring him. 
What do I do, ladies??