Awkward morning

So my son (4 week old) decided he didn't want to sleep last night. He slept maybe 2 hours between 9pm-6am. He wanted to be attached to the boobs. He'd fall asleep and I'd move or put the boob away and he'd wake up crying. Then my older son (3yo) woke up crying cuz he lost his phone and his grandma wasn't there.. so both boys were crying at once. So i finally got my 4 week old to sleep around 630. Had to take my older girls to school cuz it was raining. Got home around 730 and was FINALLY able to sleep.. but then my husband decided he wanted to try stick his weiner in my butt.. 😑😑.. back story, I had my csection on dec 6th and am still bleeding off and on. Dec 8th my SO got his hand stuck in a machine at work so he only has use of one hand. We haven't had sex since around thanksgiving, maybe before. My fault since I was always hurting or had no sex drive. So this morning he decided he wanted sex. But since I'm bleeding still, he wanted to stick it in the butt.. which im ok with. But I was just too tired. I attempted it anyways. He ended up stopping cux it felt weird to him. I started laughing cuz it felt awkward to me too. I felt bad cuz he didnt finish. So we laid there and talked. He told me he wants to try make more time for just me and him. With 4 kids, itll never happen unless they are all asleep... and by then i want to sleep too. Then we were finally gona go to sleep (kids were sleeping the whole time) and they woke up.