Virginity

I have been wanting to lose my virginity for a long time. I have been dating a guy and now that I am finally in a poisition to lose my virginity, I'm afraid! Frustratingly enough, in the moment I really want to but whenever I think about it I stress out! Obviously every guy I be with I won't be a virgin for and if they judge me on that I shouldn't be with them. But still I stress! Thoughts suggestions and your virginity stories please!!