I have been nothing but civil and way too nice too this jerk I never talk bad about him in front of our daughter and I let him get out daughter every weekend and sometimes through the week of she's not in school just too be nice because you know I've always thought that's what your suppose too do he doesn't pay child support said it wasn't his place too even take care of her and in order for him too not pay child support we have this family planning that isn't really shit as too what a lawyer has told me last year it's just so he doesn't have too pay but anyways and he's suppose too take care of all her medical expenses and stuff but yet my daughter is blind in her right right and always will be her left eye drifts out so she sees an eye specialist but yet was suppose too be seen April of last year but yet fails too pay the 110 dollars so they will see her well he thinks we have joint custody of her and we so do not I have sole custody of her she's with me from Sunday til Friday after school sometimes she even goes on a Saturday because he slept over and stuff he's talked bad about me in front of her and stuff has made her cry before and what breaks my heart how can I fix that my baby crying over her dad forgetting about her one time I mean really then she didn't even want me she wanted her step dad too hold her and stuff now our child is 6 and will be 7 in March and is very smart and knows what goes on half the time she tells me things like mommy every time I go too my daddy's he sleeps he's so lazy and won't play with me that's why I cut my bangs mommy I'm sorry so I'm so angry with this guy by now so I say something of course he brings his mom into it and they both say you can't watch a kid 24/7 I said bullshit she's the only kid you have too watch when it's just you and her really so being the bigger person I just let it go and try too be nice too both of them when really in my mind I'm pounding them with a baseball bat well anyways so my daughter had surgery during fall break for her teeth where he doesn't make her brush her teeth and gives her whatever she wants and so does his mother I get tired of fighting with them about these things and it's very stressul well anyways he insisted that I went down too the cafeteria too eat and I'm like no I'm okay I'll wait til I get home and he was very presistant about it so I finally said okay so he would leave me alone I asked him too watch my wallet for me til I got back up there where we waiting for her too get out of surgery well today after I go too the school board too turn in some papers I go too clean out my wallet and my daughters birth certificate is gone and my wallet is only carried in my vehicle when I drive it and then I put it up away from my kids so I know he stole it because it isn't the first time he's done it too me so I've been pretty mad all day and I'm strongly thinking about going too the court house and dropping that family planning thing since his lawyer at the time said that I could drop it anytime that I want and after I wanna go get a lawyer and make him pay child support and stuff and have it too where he only gets her every other weekend because I'm so tired of being so damn nice when he does this shit too me I mean Wtf have I ever done too you I was good too you when you left me and our daughter at your dad's so you could cheat on me which his mother and sister told me about so I left him and I've been so civil with this asshole that I'm just tired of it I'm over it I should have put my foot down along time ago what do you ladies think am I just crazy or what