you're just not good at it

I just had a baby so me and my husband can't have sex for a few weeks so I thought I'd help him out with a handy one morning... Well I'm probably like 5 minutes into it and he goes "this may take a while" and I'm like "why?" And he goes... "You're not very good at this." 😳😳😳 awkward as fuck lol we've been together for 3 years and you've been pretending this whole time?! Damn. He's gotten off from my hand jobs before too, so I had no idea. But why wouldn't he just try to help me out a little and tell me what to do vs. being so blunt about it, cause it kind of hurt my feelings. And made me realize that our sex life kinda sucks. He has no passion and he just makes things awkward 😭 he ain't getting shit from me no more! Ugh.