child support rant

I don't see how everyone blames the mother for their child's father being placed on child support. All I see is people bashing single moms for getting child support from the "dad" it takes 2 people to make a baby , so moms shouldn't have to struggle to take care of their child or children alone , while her kids dad is  out living carefree. Then ppl want to say oh she's lazy or money hungry or well she knew he was a dead beat before she got pregnant 🙄 ummm no half the time before you get pregnant the man is a totally different person, supportive , caring etc.. but as soon as you get pregnant they bail on you . So yes I'm all for Child support!! Should no one have to struggle or work 2 or 3 jobs to care for a child when both parents should be contributing! And no this does not include the moms that spend the money on themselves and not the kids this is strictly defending those wonderful single mommies who go above and beyond for their children.