Poor hubby!

So im 38 weeks with our third child and this will be his fourth also our last child as im getting my tubes tied, anyways I've gone inti labor 4 times already but i was too early so they stopped the baby from coming, including at 36 weeks 6 days, 😒. Anyways my husband was so excited because he finally got his little boy after 3 girls, now that I've been term the I've had numerous contractions even three minutes apart and yet i cant dilate still because of some medicine the doctor had been giving me so i didn't have early labor. Im 38 weeks 3cm dilated, 90% effaced, and at station 0. Well the last time i went into the hospital over painful and consistent contractions and i still haven't dilated anymore they sent me home again as usual, my husband became very distant, he wants his son so bad and he is literally so depressed because he has gotten his hopes up so many times, he was in the military with all the other pregnancies so he didn't know what to expect. How can i make him feel better and realize its a natural part of pregnancy and not to give or hate me or child because of all the stress.? If you haven't noticed yes he is a big baby, but he is my baby and i still take care of him.