I have a cake lady I've been going to for a couple years now.  I usually just order cupcakes from her but this time I ordered a cake.  I placed my order back in November and started to bug out cause I thought she would forget about my cake.  I told her the colors I wanted and the flavors.  She called the the Friday before the shower to verify things which put me at ease cause she didn't forget but then she said she started making my cake PINK!  I requested purple and turquoise!  Then she talked about changing a few things.  I left everything up to her and told her I trusted her vision and she called me again Saturday night about how she loved my cake!  I picked it up Sunday morning and couldn't stop smiling