I want to become an exotic dancer. Any advice?

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I'm chubbier than i'd like to be, so i'm definitely going to work on that. I'm also going to start pole dancing lessons when i get the extra money. I'm really shy though so that's going to be hard to get over. I want to do it to get out of my comfort zone a little and also for the fancy outfits lol i've always seen it to be empowering and not degrading. But yeah, any advice?

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I'm not an exotic dancer but my advice is work on the shyness. It's definitely hard I can vouch for that. What I did was put myself into unlikely situations. My husband and I own a business and I go to shows all the time without him so I had to learn quickly that I needed to not be shy. If you can find an exotic dancer and befriend them ask them questions get to know what you can about it. The more you know the better you're going to be. Ask how they became fit enough for it, ask about what strength exercises to do to help with the dancing (because it takes a lot of strength to do a lot of what they do). Study everyone's techniques because you can use those for yourself or take a piece from each and do your own thing. I hope this helps and keep us updated on how it goes because I'm very interested in this as well for myself just closest place to learn is 4 hours away. Good luck!

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I was one for 2 1/2 years...I too felt really uncomfortable in my body but I'm not kidding it made me the most confident I have ever been in my life! Plus just from lap dances (most clubs don't even make you go on main stage) it was a wicked work out. It made me so toned. And girl omg the money!! I have never made money like that in my life! To put it this way...my very first night I worked 6 hours...made $1500! BUT it takes a lot to get used to as far as schedule wise. Nights I'd work on the weekends, I'd be driving home at 8 am. And be careful about the ppl in there. I got roofied twice and was seconds away from being raped in the champagne room once. Be careful.

I want to become an exotic dancer. Any advice?

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