Women Are Sexual Objects
From working in the same gas station over a year. Running my shift by myself. I've come to learn that many of the male customers who come in view women as sexual objects.
Even before I left my husband, I had men coming in hitting on me.
Once word got around that I was single (it's a small town), even more guys would make little comments here and there.
And they're not about personality or how nice I am, though I've gotten a couple like that.
No they're "nice ass"
"when you gonna let me hit that"
"I been staring at your ass every time I come in"
Things like that. And honestly, while it's nice to know that apparently I have a nice ass, it's annoying.
What in the world makes you think that I want to sleep with you?
Just because I'm nice to you, doesn't mean I want to fuck you. It's literally my job to be nice to you!
Women are not here to be sexualized by horny men.
A smile is not an invitation for sex.
My clothing is not an invitation for sex.
Unless I say point blank "I want to have sex with you", there is no invitation for sex.
So keep your comments to yourself.