Why can't I orgasm during sex?

Question

I'm easily able to orgasm when I masterbate but ive never cummed during sex and I don't know why. I want to and I have come really close but i just can't and I want to know why. Anyone know?

Answer

Girl I had the same problem! I had to stop madyerbating cause I trained myself to just get off like that. Now I almost always get off! It helps to have him do you doggy style and you masterbate while he does it. Also my bf uses his thumb to get me off when I'm riding him. Give it a try!

Answer

It could be that you need clitoral stimulation and not vaginal. I have to have clitoral stimulation to orgasm, so that could be the cause.

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If there is foreplay, to the point where I'm very wet and I don't feel any pain during penetration + Clitoral simulation + (most importantly) not thinking of and force myself to come, that normally does it. But it is rare that I have that combo, most of the time I'm thinking 'I want to come,  I want to come,  I want to come,' that I lose focus in what is actually happening and don't orgasm. And my husband always think the issue is him. 
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Answer

Goong through the same thing. I believe it has to do with foreplay or the lack of it(for me anyway).

Answer

It's extremely normal. The vast majority of women actually don't orgasm from penetrative sex. I for one don't! Nothing is wrong or weird about you. In all honesty- I think it's a little how someone could!

Why can't I orgasm during sex?

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