boyfriend is being difficult

We have just moved into our first house together.. this is the second time we have ate here. 
We both made seperate pastas the first day... now today I got my food out of the freezer and asked him what he wants
He said " anything " I said like what we have pizza, chicken, sausages here etc.. and he said " well you know what I like cook me what ever " 
**** he's he worlds fussiest Eater** 
I said come and have a look.. and he said "you're the woman.. what if I was out working, would you ask me then"
I said no as it will be late and I would text U to ask anyway.. but you are right here so you can at least tell me what you want.
So then he said " aw I don't want anything .. il go up my mothers for food" and kept on saying he doesn't want food after asking him.
Then I started yelling because he's acting like a 8 year old.. and he called me a CUNT and a dickhead.. 
Am I being difficult?
He expects me to cook, clean and tidy up because I'm the woman.
We never eat the same food so it's difficult for me.. all I asked for him to do was pick what he wanted and I would of cooked it.