Not sure what to do? SO barely holds baby.

Question

I feel like maybe I pushed him into being a dad. I don't know if it's me or what. He holds her maybe a couple times a day for less than five minutes then hands her to me. Barely spends time with me or at home since she's been born. Has never even changed her diaper and she's almost 2 weeks old.

What do I do? How do I talk to him about this?

Answer

Tell him to step it up because he's a dad now and he has to put on his big boy pants and be a good and involved parent.

Answer

Tell him to do some things. Make him hold baby while you go take a bath or a couple hour nap. He will interact more as babybgets older but right now just give him jobs to do with baby. It's normal for them to be like this, my hubby was same way. He's more open to taking him now even if it just giving me a break