We have only been trying for a baby 3 months.... it is mentally draining! I honestly don't know how some of you ladies do it I really take my hat off to you I really do. The strength and hope you hold is admirable, I feel really selfish as it's only such a short time we've been trying but I honestly don't know how long I can try for, I'm not getting any younger. I have anxiety disorder so each month I'm symptom watching and getting my hopes up only for HER to arrive. My husband on the other hand is such a positive person, I wish I was the same. 😓