Lube??

So I don't know what to do. During sex, although I'm always horny and ready to go, I don't usually get wet and produce luberication like women normally do, and I always recommend lube but my boyfriend hates it. He says the lube we use doesn't give him that much stimulation or how ever you want to say it. It said it just feels like it's rubbing not actually going in and out of me. What would be a good lube to maybe help this?? We always use the spit method when I'm not as wet as I'd like to be.