Surprise Baby

Am I the only one who gets a little annoyed at "Surprise babies"? Not the women who get pregnant by surprise, but the ones who are pregnant and HAVE THEIR CHILD and it's all a surprise. I have struggled for 9 years to have a child and have had several miscarriages. I follow every single thing my doctor tells me by the book! And some women just wake up and SURPRISE here is a magic baby you didn't even know you were pregnant with!