Losing the big v-card??

Question

I've been dating this guy for over a year now (I'm 16) and although I know that a lot of people say high school relationships don't last, I feel really special with this guy. Considering my last relationship he is the most nicest guy that I have ever met and I'm so glad that he keeps up with my shit lol. I have thought about losing my virginity to him but there is one problem...he's a virgin too. I'm a little scared that maybe it would just be to awkward for me and him too to actually enjoy the moment. Has anyone been in a position like this? How exactly do I overcome this small "fear"?

Answer

Well my virginity isn't that important to me I lost it when I was 16 if you want to have sex just ask him if he is ready but you both have to be comfortable with each other. And you have to use a condom

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Work your way up to it. Don't immediately have sex.
Start slowly and don't rush it. For example start of by simply exploring each other's bodies and seeing what they feel like, then once your comfortable start playing with each other and go from there.. working up to it and being okay with laughing with each other when you mess up makes the awkwardness fly out the window, and allows more trust to start flying in.

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Take baby steps towards it and make sure he's completely ready. Talk to him about how you feel. Use protection!!

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My boyfriend and I were both virgins, at first we didn't know what we were doing and it took 5 times to  stick it in the whole way because of how painful it was, you should just do it when you're ready and know that the beginning will be weird but after a while you're gonna do it like nothing i promise, it'll all work its self out

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I mean, the bottom line is that losing your virginity together is going to be a little awkward and probably not super enjoyable as you'd like. It's not like it is in the movies, hun... my boyfriend and I lost our virginity together while we were still in high scholl and although it was a little awkward, we survived and had sex again. And again. And again. You guys will be fine. Don't worry.

Losing the big v-card??

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