😢 no heartbeat

Went for my first ultra sound today at 11weeks just to find out there's no heartbeat in the fetus ... 💔 going to get another ultra sound tomorrow but doctor already said it should be showing and its most likely a miscarriage ... This will be my first and I don't know if I want to try again . I'm so embarrassed and don't know where I went wrong it doesn't help we already told friends and family . 😢 how did some of you ladies cope ?