they sad bad things happen in threes

Kate
Thursday my grandfather died. Today was the funeral. 
Left the funeral today to go to emergency room because of intense cramping. Found out we lost the baby. Would've been our first.
Then on the way home after picking up our other car from the funeral home, my boyfriend gets t-boned in his truck down the street from our house. Woman went through the stop sign and spun his truck. Luckily his CT scan came back ok and he's fine.
Can this day just be a bad dream and we wake up??