First time?

Question

My boyfriend and I are 17, both virgins and been together almost 3 years. We talked about sex the first time but we can't figure out a place. He wants it to be in a bed but we can't be alone at either of our parents house but his parents let us have some alone time but would hear if we did it there. We just don't want our parents knowing that we are doing it. Any help? Please?

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I don't want to sound mean or rude by any means but why not just wait until your 18 or out where u can have a more open relationship. And don't have to hide anything. I'm sure your parents are understanding and proud of u both for waiting this long and that's great. If your still in school make it a celebration you both will remember forever. Not to sound corny but prom or graduation. Get a nice set up. And make it memorable. After all it will be your first. And there's no way to unwind what's already been done afterwards. Just a thought. Pray the best for u both.

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Just be very quiet when doing It. :) i find it very nice that you guys are together for 3 years and no sex. Very lovely :)

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You waited 3 why not wait one more not cause its bad, but because if parents do find out they can cause way more trouble then you want, maybe even legal trouble

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I highly suggest you either purchase a hotel room for a night or wait til you are both 18. It will not be much of an experience if you two are worried about getting caught.

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I think that's lovely hat you guys waited so long, and are really thinking about it before taking that step. That being said besides the advice that's already been given here I have nothing to add, but good for you. A nice change from the 15 year olds trying to concieve.

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If I were you I'd wait until you actually have a private place to do it. Take your time.

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A bed is obviously the best place. You can rent a hotel for the day. A nice one so you feel comfortable. It doesn't matter where it matters who it is with and how you feel about them.

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Talk to his parents about it or wait until one of your parents are not home. Make sure you have birth control or condoms in place prior to that day. You may need your parents to obtain that in some states. Don't make it a cheap hotel room if you get one. You need a nice clean place for your first time to avoid issues. Most places you have to be 18-21 to get a hotel. My advice is if you want to rent a hotel room together ask an older friend, sibling, aunt or uncle to get it for you. You need to know that you want your first time to be perfect and make sure you will remember it forever!

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Maybe rent a cheap hotel room and just tell your parents your staying at a friends house? You could try and be extra quiet when your parents are around but since it's the first time for both of you that might not work out that well

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