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I live with my boyfriend and we've been together just short of a year and a half. Right at the beginning of our relationship, I made the stupid mistake of cheating on him by sleeping with someone else. He chose to forgive me and has generously forgotten it. However, he has recently cheated on me, by performing oral sex on his ex girlfriend. 
I guess we're even now, cause I did it first, but that was at the start of our relationship, and I thought we were happy together. His ex is pregnant with another mans child and she was the one who told me what happened.

Do I forgive and forget, or move out and move on?

Please only helpful advice, I'm hurting pretty bad and have no time for b/s.

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Doesn't matter when u cheated or when he cheated the point is u both did it. But the difference is he chose to forgive u & stay with u. Just Cuz u did it doesn't give him the right to just to get even. Sounds like a very unhealthy relationship. I would say move on now before it gets worse.

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Move on

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Sorry to say this only looks like it will get worse. I would break up the trust sounds like it's gone. And without trust you are just going to be worrying about making him happy which doesn't do you any good. Time to start over fresh and learn from your mistakes.

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In my opinion there is no excuse for that. If he were truly happy in your relationship together he wouldn't have done that. If I were you I'd get out now.

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You recognize that it was a mistake when you did it, and he chose to forgive you. That being said, it is not okay for him to cheat on you. You too need to sit down and decide if you want to work through this, and decide if your relationship is repairable. If you don't think that you will be able to trust him again then you need to move on. But if you are both willing to work through it then it's going to be hard but that doesn't mean that it isn't possible to fix. You really need to think this through. Don't make any quick decisions until you both have spoke and have thought things through. Good luck

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Move on! The situation you described involves no love!

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What did he say?

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Move on!

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I would totally move on.

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