SO UPSET

So tomorrow is my 21st birthday & im not doing anything special at all. It's gonna be just like any other regular day. My parents got me a plane ticket to spend my Spring Break in New York but that's not until March! I am grateful for that but it's also my 21st birthday. I feel like I'm being ungrateful and acting like a spoiled brat because my birthday gift is a plane ticket to New York and I should be happy about this and I am but on my 21st birthday I'm gonna be at home in my house clothes watching old episodes of House Hunters, binge watching Monsters Inside Me, and my parents are gonna get me Chinese takeout & they're gonna sing Happy Birthday & that's it. And to make it all worse, I just told my boyfriend all of this and he literally said nothing. The only thing he said was "Does your dad have wiper fluid?" I really should just be okay with spending Spring Break in New York for 21st but I'm not. And I feel really really bad because I feel like I'm being ungrateful & bratty. What should I do?