I used to weigh a constant 95 lbs. Recently I've put on weight. My boobs went from As to Ds, my pants don't really fit anymore. I just learned that I now weigh 130lbs. I know I'm not fat, just insecure. Suggestions to deal with it?

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You're beautiful.
I don't think you need to change anything. ❤

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You look great!!!!!! 😭 Insecurity is a tough thing to overcome and it'll take time but just learn to compliment yourself everyday and instead of pointing out what's wrong with you, point out things you like about yourself. I'm insecure as well, but I started doing this and I don't hate myself nearly as much as I did in the past. I believe this method will help you overtime 💗

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I know the feeling of insecurity even though you look good. I had an eating disorder (totally different I know) but as I climbed to a healthier weight, I couldn't adjust to the number even though I looked hotter. 
I've found weight training increases my self confidence. Sure I put on pounds even mlre, but it's all muscle, so I feel like I can almost justify it or enjoy it more.
Not sure this is helpful considering the different circumstance. But hey you look hot, so whatever helps you adjust to your new body! Looks like you gained in nice places too. Good luck!

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Op here ^^
I appreciate everyone's input! I think part of it is just the shock. I mean I knew I put on weight, but that seemed like a lot more than I thought. I'm 20 so I understand a lot of it is hormones and my body continuing to change. Plus my job involves a lot of physical activity (I'm a waitress) so some of it is probably additional muscle mass. So I think I need to buy pants that actually fit now, maybe do some crunches to tone my tummy and listen to my loving boyfriend and all of you when you tell me to own it ;). Thank you again!

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Your actually a healthy weight so you can think about that

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Well 95 pounds is a healthy weight for a 13yr old. Idk how old u are what your bmi is but I don't think 130 is really something u should be concerned with. There's really no way other than to just get over the insecurities maybe go shopping, find clothes that make u feel sexy. Throw all your old clothes out and start over. U look really good honestly. I couldn't imagine u lighter from the pic u posted it's damn near perfect. Maybe just play around with your new found curves! 😘😍

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I am under 100lbs and if I could get to 130 by the end of this year I'd cry from happiness lol. Okay so you're beautiful. Change is scary but everyone goes through it. If you want to get to the body size you want just work for it and be happy that you're capable of it. I suggest doing things that make you happy just in general. Eating healthier, exercise, getting enough sun during the day, etc. Those are the types of things that are known to make people happier just in general. And once you realize you're a healthy, happy woman you will look in the mirror and be like "I take care of my body and I love what I have been blessed with."

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First of all don't listen to the asshole who commented to "stop being insecure" because obviously they don't know shit. If you wanna gain some confidence and help yourself try and get to know your body a little bit better at the moment because that's the only way you will feel comfortable seeing yourself in this new shape and form is to actually view yourself from every angle. You are a beautiful girl and whoever tells you different can go dig a hole and lie there while I burry their asses with your new found confidence.

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Bby girl you look really great! I weigh 98.0 right now and I need what you have !!

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Hot damn girl! I love your body! Curvy in the right spots and a nice little waist. I totally wish I looked like you!

I used to weigh a constant 95 lbs. Recently I've put on weight. My boobs went from As to Ds, my pants don't really fit anymore. I just learned that I now weigh 130lbs. I know I'm not fat, just insecure. Suggestions to deal with it?

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