Gender check

So my dr is so backed up he can't get me in for another 4 more weeks to see the baby. So we looked for someone who would do it privately.  The closest we found and made an appt for was 2 hours away. The appt is set for feb3rd!! Ive been nothing estatic! As it gets closer my husband just bitches an moans abt it bc it's 2 hours away! At this point, I feel like such an inconvenience over it and he's just completely ruined it for me, I don't think I even wanna go now!  Can anyone relate to this?? It gets me so down!!