Anyone else not having a baby shower?

First time mom here. My hubby and I just relocated, so no friends here. I also don't get along with my mother (she really hates my husband for stupid pride reasons). She doesn't exhibit any enthusiasm for my pregnancy, so I know she won't throw a shower for me. It's kind of a bummer because I wish I could have a little celebration for the little one, but truly, my hubby and I could really use some of the necessities for a baby. I get so sad seeing baby showers for other moms or the nurseries that they have set up. At this point, I can probably only afford a basket with blankets for the baby's crib!