Is Crying in front of your partner constantly that much of a problem?

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I cry so much around my partner that it is to the point that he's so over it. I'm just a sensitive person and I cry over everything. I feel bad because I know he wants to console me but he's so fed up with it that he starts to get aggravated.

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I cry at everything. I cry when I get homesick, I cry when SPCA commercials come on, I even cried when we were watching the Daily Show and they were showing clips of the horrible things Fox anchors were saying about Mike Brown and Eric Garner... My husband thinks it's cute lol. He goes "aww moomoo" and laughs while he hugs me and rubs my back. Such a sweetheart.

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He's frustrated that he can't console you, and it probably makes him feel useless. Next time you start crying, ask yourself why you are. Is this really worth crying about?

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I am the same way! I cry over so much & I feel like he gets so annoyed with me, but I can't help it. I've gotten to the point where I'll try not to let him see me crying or just walk into a different room

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I cry all the time lol. Literally if my feelings get hurt, I'm really stressed, I'm really happy, something romantic happens... Etc... I totally cry. lol. My husband comforts me if I need it though (like if I'm actually sad about something), he's never mean about it!  
Your SO should always be there for you, even if it is something like crying about everything lol.

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Everyone's emotions are different, especially since our horomones vary throughout the month. Anytime I find myself being overly sensitive, I think of where I'm at in my cycle and think "ok, is this my horomones causing me to be so emotional/sensitive OR is this genuinely something that is hurting my feelings or that I feel passionately about." I always used to hate it when people would use their horomones as an excuse, but mine are so up and down with my horomone issues that I realized that I AM one of those people, lol.

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I never cry. My SO cried in front of me twice, before I cried in front of him lol. Of course both times, he cried I cried into his shoulder but he didn't know! 😂 I cried over my dad having a triple bypass surgery and he held me while I cried. I never cry (unless it is SERIOUS) so all my exes got so used to Me being so strong that whenever I cried, they were frustrated with me. I'm learning to be better about my emotions. I can hold then in, but have to let them show from time to time. :) good luck! Maybe if you talk through your feelings with him he will understand!

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Men are....well, men. They show their emotions in a totally different way and a lot of men simply cannot understand why us women wear our hearts on our sleeves. My husband gets annoyed when I cry and often doesn't even want me to cry in front of him. It's a matter of not understanding and feeling bad. Sometimes it makes them uncomfortable and upsets them, so they'd rather not see. However, I can understand how it would become irritating after awhile. If you're crying over everything, he will eventually not be able to distinguish when something truly upsets you from something trivial, like a sappy movie. And that can be a problem. When he wants to get away from you every time you cry then that's not good. Something needs to give or it's going to drive a wedge between you. Try leaving the room when you get weepy over little things. At least that will give him a break so he can be there for you when it actually counts.

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Im the same way, i wish sometimes i born without tearducts lol, i cry sometimes even if im not upset, luckly my husband is very pacient we have been together 6yrs now, it does make him upset cause he thinks he is the cause sometimes, meditation works for me, and maybe try to find what the root causes are and try to work on it

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I don't cry very often. Maybe once every few months. I find it annoying when people cry over everything so it's not just men who are like this. It all depends on how your emotions are. You guys need to work it out though because neither of you will probably change your emotions.

Is Crying in front of your partner constantly that much of a problem?

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