Anyone else depressed?

I'm so anxious and depressed. Worried I'll just end up burnt out with a baby to take care of after all of this, I won't have any money for nice things, my body will be ruined..I started to gain weight anyway the last year and also concerned that my husband and I won't have any time for each other. Also he's excited, but nothing really has changed...I would've thought he would get me flowers at least! 
Anyone feeling like this? Any advice? I thought I wanted this..and I'm getting older so it's the right time, but still freaking out! And no more wine :-(