Do I do the do??

Question

So I am only 15 years old but I have never felt the age I'm at. Always older. My boyfriend and I have been going strong for four months and things have been amazing. We have a really good, deep, respectful connection and he is also my best friend. I love him so much and... I really want to do the do with him. Of course I would be safe and use protection, neither of us have STDs or STIs. I want to lose my virginity to him because 1) we both love each other 2) I want to 3) we are very respectful 4) it is a nice way of showing how much you love someone. The things holding me back: 1) I am only 15 2) the risk involved regardless of how safe one is 3) it's a big moment, losing ones virginity but I do want it to be with him. What are your opinions? Should I wait? Or should I do what feels right?

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Girl learn this lesson early on, don't worry about asking for permission for every little thing. It's hard because in the society we are raised in you have to ask permission just to go to the damn bathroom, but the real world isn't like that. You make your own choices, you should absolutely do what you want to. It makes me sad to see girls asking questions like "is this normal". Don't worry about normal. Worry about what you want.

When you're making a decision focus on how comfortable you are with it, is it going to make you happy, do you actually want to do it? You seem like a very mature girl who thinks these things out. Continue to do that, deepen your maturity, always listen to your intuition and make your own choices.

Seems like you already know what you want, I say go for it! Be safe, have fun and love your life! ❤️

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Do what feels right! Many will say you're too young but I was sexually active at that age. You seem responsible enough to handle things. As long as it's safe and consensual there's no issue!

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You might want to wait as vaginal tissues don't completely form until around 16. Sex can unfortunately be bad for you at that age. And it's only been 4 months, trust me relationships need more time than that.

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If you're ready than sure!  Be safe,  consensual and ready. Don't let age get in the way of things if you know you're ready.

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I would wait a few more years, just my opinion. I always felt older too but I waited until I was 19 and I was definitely the right age, because my boyfriend was mature enough to handle it too. Boys are less mature than girls and sex really does change your relationship and mentality towards each other.. Also I would wait until you could get on a solid form of birth control, and you have to think about how you would get ahold of condoms at your age? No judgement just food for thought.

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I say go for it! Sounds like the perfect way to lose your virginity

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I say wait for the right guy! You may think he is now but it may never be that way!

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If you can wait a little longer 😄

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Definitely do what feels right but don't let that in the way of being safe!

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